Saturday, April 11, 2026

5825. Asota caricae caterpillar

SINGAPORE - 8 APR 2026: 6 pm. The caterpillar of Asota caricae moth has prominent black and white markings and a prominent red or orange head capsule. Its bold patterning warns predators it may be unpalatable or toxic. It is a voracious feeder of plant material, often leaves. It often causes much damage to fruits and agricultural products.

 

8 Apr 2026. Lots of caterpillars on the floor and ground.
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 voracious eaters of leaves, skeletonising them.
Canon R5 160mm, 1/10 sec, f/16, iso 500
9 Apr 2026, 8.15am. Rain overnight.

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Description

The wingspan is 51–58 mm. Palpi with black spots on 1st and 2nd joints. Forewings brownish fuscous. There is a basal orange patch with two subbasal black spots and a series of three spots on its outer edge, that matches the coloration of the scales of the thorax. The veins are streaked with white. There is a white spot at lower angle of the discal cell. Hindwings are orange yellow, with a black spot at the end of the discal cell, one beyond, one below vein 2 and a submarginal irregular series which sometimes becomes a nearly complete marginal band. The veins crossing the band are yellowish. Larva black above, with two dorsal white bands, a sub-dorsal black spot on each somite. A series of lateral black specks present with sparse black hairs. Ventral coloration brown, head capsule is reddish.[2]

Ecology

The larvae have been recorded on Ficus, Broussonetia, Mesua, Tectona and Shorea species. Pupation is in a slight cocoon, fixed to a leaf. The species is found in forest and agricultural areas.[3][4]

5823. 75 - 300mm lens. Blood-veined Moth

 

 

SINGAPORE - 8 APR 2026. The Blood-veined moth (Timandra comae). Buff-coloured wings. A pinkish-red line runs across the wings. The wing span is 30-46mm.

8 Apr 2026. 
Canon R5, 300mm. 1/320 sec. f/5.6 ISO 5000 

5822. PODCAST. @solastories - My Daughter-In-Law Lay On My New Bed And Said “I’m Taking It!”—Then My Son Called The Movers.

 

My Daughter-In-Law Lay On My New Bed And Said “I’m Taking It!”—Then My Son Called The Movers.

 

 

When I opened the door that morning, the first thing I saw was the moving truck parked in front of my house. The engine was running. Two men were waiting for
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instructions, and my son Mark was standing next to Samantha, my daughter-in-law, with that expression I knew so well. That mix of poorly hidden
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guilt and cowardice that kept him from looking me in the eyes. Samantha smiled at me, a fake, bright smile, as if she
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were doing the whole world a favor. I took a deep breath. I felt the cold morning air fill my lungs, filling me
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with something I wasn't sure was rage or just the exhaustion of so many years of putting up with it. So many years of silence. So many years of being
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invisible in my own life. The movers looked at me waiting for a signal. One of them, the younger one, was holding a
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clipboard. They probably already had a list of what they were supposed to take.
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Mark had probably given them precise instructions.
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as always, without consulting me, as if I didn't exist, as if this house wasn't mine, as if my voice didn't matter. But
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that morning, for the first time in a long time, my voice was going to matter.
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I slowly approached the men from the truck. Samantha stopped smiling. Mark took a step back as if sensing that something had changed, and he was right.
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Something had changed. I had changed. I looked at the movers and told them calmly with a tranquility that surprised
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even me. Good morning, gentlemen. You can load everything you need. There's no problem. But you are not taking the
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furniture. There was a silence. One of those heavy, uncomfortable silences where everyone waits for someone to
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speak, but no one dares. Samantha was the first to react. What do you mean?
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No. Eleanor, we already talked about this. The bed is perfect for our room.
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We'll leave you your old one. Don't be difficult. Difficult? That word? As if asking for respect was complicating
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things. As if defending what's yours was a whim. As if existing was an inconvenience. I kept looking at the
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movers. I didn't answer her. It didn't make sense to talk to Samantha anymore.
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She had stopped listening to me a long time ago. Gentlemen, I repeated with the same calm, you can load up, but not the
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furniture. Take these two with all their things. The silence now was absolute.
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Even the birds seemed to have stopped singing. The truck's engine was still running, a constant hum filling the void of that frozen moment. Mark finally
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spoke. Mom, what are you saying? Don't start this now. Now. As if there were a convenient time to defend myself. As if there were a correct hour to say enough,
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as if my dignity had office hours,
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Samantha approached me. Her smile was completely gone. Now, there was only that hard expression, that cold look she used when something didn't go her way.
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Eleanor, I don't know what's gotten into you today, but this is ridiculous. The bed is already decided. Mark already
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promised it for our house. You can't back out now. Promised. as if my bed were something he could promise. As if
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my things were his property, as if I were just another piece of furniture in this house, something that could be moved around without asking permission.
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But I wasn't that piece of furniture anymore. I wasn't that woman who nodded in silence. I wasn't the mother who swallowed humiliation just to avoid
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problems. That woman was dead. And in her place, there was me, the real me,
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the one who had always been there, but whom I hadn't dared to let out. I took an envelope out of my apron pocket. An envelope with papers I had found two
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days earlier. Papers I had forgotten existed. Papers that changed everything.
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Samantha, I said, looking her directly in the eyes. This house has a deed. And that deed is in my name. Only my name.
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Every piece of furniture here, every plate, every scent that was used to buy anything in this house came from my
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work, from my hands, from my years of effort. I showed her the documents. She looked at them as if they were a trap.
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As if I had invented something to ruin her day. Mark turned pale. I think in that moment he realized everything. All
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the years he had allowed his wife to treat me as if I didn't matter. All the times he stayed quiet when he should have spoken. All the humiliations he let
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pass because it was easier to ignore me than to defend me. So yes, I continued,
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the gentleman can load up, but you two are leaving with your things, with your clothes, with everything you brought into my house because this is my house,
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not yours. Samantha tried to speak, but I raised a hand. I wasn't going to let her interrupt me. Not this time. This time they were going to hear me out.
 
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I felt sadness for Mark. For the son I had lost somewhere along the way for the relationship we never managed to build
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as adults. But I also felt relief, a deep true relief. I got up and went to the kitchen. I made coffee just for
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myself. I poured it into my favorite mug, the one I had put away because Samantha always used it without asking.
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I sat by the window and watched the garden sipping slowly. The phone rang.
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It was Helen, my neighbor. Eleanor. I saw everything. Are you all right? I'm all right, Helen. Better than all right.
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Do you want me to come over? Do you need company? I thought about her offer.
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Company sounded nice, but so did solitude. Chosen solitude. The solitude that isn't abandonment, but freedom.
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Maybe later, I replied. Right now, I just want to be with myself for a while.
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I understand. When you want to talk, I'm here." I hung up the phone and went back to looking out the window. The sun was
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shining brightly. The plants in the yard swayed in the breeze. Everything was the same, but everything was different. I
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knew Mark would try to come back, that he would call, that he would send messages, that he might even apologize.
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And I would have to decide then what to do. whether to open the door or keep it closed, whether to give another chance or protect my peace. But that was a
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decision for later, for another day, for when I was ready. For now, I just wanted to enjoy this moment. This moment when
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Eleanor, the invisible, had become Eleanor, the defender. Eleanor, the one who says no. Eleanor, the owner of her
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own life. I finished my coffee and washed the mug. Then I went to my room and changed my clothes. I put on something comfortable. I looked at
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myself in the mirror and smiled. I was the same woman as always, but I was also completely different. I was the woman
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who had finally learned that loving yourself isn't selfish, that setting boundaries doesn't make you a bad person, that defending what's yours
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isn't being mean. That night, I lay in my new bed with the windows open. The cool air filled the room. The sheets
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smelled clean. The mattress was firm beneath my back. And for the first time in 72 years, I felt completely at peace
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with myself. I had lost my son. At least for now, I had lost the idea of family I had always wanted to have. But I had
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gained something much more important. I had gained myself back. I had regained my voice. I had regained my space. I had
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regained my life. And as I closed my eyes to sleep, I thought of all the women like me. All the mothers who make themselves invisible. All the ones who
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give in and stay quiet. All the ones who confuse love with submission. And I wish that they too would one day find their
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own bed, their own boundary, their own voice. Because we all deserve to sleep in peace. We all deserve to have our own things. We all deserve to be seen,
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respected, and valued. And I finally after so many years had learned that lesson. I closed my eyes and fell into a deep sleep without pain, without fear,
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without guilt, only peace.