Create a video: MAINTAINING A GOOD FRIENDSHIP
I am Dr David Sing, 76, a tall Chinese man with a full crop of silvery black hair. I have always wished to take photographs of three adult Scarlet Macaws flying in a line above and away from me. Three large parrots 33 inches (89 cm) long. Each has bold red feathers, bright yellow and blue wings, a white bare face, and a strong two-tone beak. I know they reside in the Crimson Wetlands of Bird Paradise.
MY MISSION. I asked Mr Brian Peck for help. He is a tall Caucasian with silvery hair, well built, fit and steady. He wears a photographer's vest with many pockets and black pants. He is a professional photographer. He has the camera and the white Canon zoom lens to take the shots of flying birds.
So, on 23 July 2026 at 9 am, Mr Peck asked: "David, what type of bird photos are you looking to shoot?"
A bright cool morning with gentle breezes and blue skies, we entered the Crimson Wetlands. The heat and humidity were not suffocating yet. On a tall tree without leaves, pink and white birds are perched, waiting. Waiting for breakfast. "I hope you can help me take shots of three adult Scarlet Macaws flying in a line above me and around the Crimson Wetlands.
Brian and I walked to search for the Macaws at 10am. Many flamingos were getting hungry and looking for the bird keeper, Scarlet Ibises, ducks and parrots were sauntering on the ground. The sunshine became glaring.
Brian and I photographed two Scarlet Macaws on the tree branches eating the fruits and other food from a stainless steel bowl. Where was the 3rd Scarlet Macaw?
Brian waited one hour. He photographed other birds flying. No Scarlet Macaw flew. Only 2 were present and were eating.
The weather was getting hot and humid. Beads of sweat flow from my forehead down my nose.
The flamingos were hungry now. They hustle for the pellets placed in the contained. They waded in the shallow pond to drink water. No Scarlet Macaw flew today. We left for home.
The next day, Brian sent me a beautiful photo of a Scarlet Macaw flying past him some days earlier. I thanked him for his kindness.
Brian and I MAINTAIN A GOOD FRIENDSHIP. We share photography tips and techniques. We are PROACTIVE - one of us may schedule a bird photography trip to the Bird Paradise, phone each other or meet at a coffee cafe.
We SHOW UP FOR LIFE'S IMPORTANT MOMENTS - make them for face-to-face visits whenever possible.
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1. What happened? The story.
23 July 2026. A 9am early morning visit to Bird Paradise.
"What do you want to photograph?" asked Brian Peck, elderly strong Caucasian with short crop of silver hair. He wore the professional photographer's vest. Many pockets to fill his accessories.
"The Scarlet Macaw birds in flight," I asked Brian to take these moving birds. "My camera cannot take sharp shots!" He got the steady hands, the skill and the better camera.
2. How did it feel? The physical settings, using your senses.
Sun shine bright. Blue sky. White cloud. Fresh air.
Bright red colours.
3. How did it feel emotionally? How did those emotions feel in your body?
Uplifting. No rain. Self-care.
4. What did you learn? What changed for you because this happened?
To maintain friendships, I need regular communication, intentional effort, and reliability. Send quick check-in texts, be honest about busy seasons, listen actively, and show up for important life moments.
Be proactive: Do not wait for the other person to call. Take the lead to schedule a coffee or a phone call.
SHOW UP: MAKE TIME FOR FACE-TO-FACE VISITS WHENEVER POSSIBLE.
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- Feathers: Bright red body, yellow middle wings, and dark blue wing tips and tail.
- Face: Bare white skin with tiny white or red feathers.
- Beak: Large and curved; pale horn-colored on top and black on the bottom.
- Where they live: Tropical rainforests, woodlands, and clearings.
- Location: Southern Mexico down to Peru, Bolivia, and parts of Brazil.
- Food: Eats hard nuts, seeds, fruits, and berries. Their strong beaks can crack tough nutshells.
- Social life: Live in loud flocks and mate for life.
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- Talk honestly: Share your true feelings and listen when your partner speaks.
- Listen to learn: Try to understand your partner instead of just waiting to reply.
- Build trust: Keep your promises and be a safe space for each other. [1, 2, 3]
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- Send quick texts: Share a funny meme or a simple "thinking of you" note.
- Be proactive: Do not wait for the other person to call. Take the lead to schedule a coffee or a phone call.
- Communicate limits: Tell friends if you enter a very busy time. Clear expectations prevent hurt feelings.
- Drop the guilt: Accept that some weeks or months will be quiet. True friends pick up right where they left off.
- Talk it out gently: Bring up issues calmly before resentment builds. Avoid sudden ghosting or cutting people off without a word.



